SINGLE LADIES: EARLY SEX AND HOW IT MAY AFFECT A RELATIONSHIP

SINGLE LADIES: EARLY SEX AND HOW IT MAY AFFECT A RELATIONSHIP

 

 

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Having sex too early in a relationship can dramatically impact it. If you’ve done this, you already know the affect it can have. Many women, when they feel a strong attraction to a man, want nothing more than to be with him intimately. They don’t consider the long term consequences until his interest drops off. Unless you understand the reason why men pull back after having sex too soon, you may see it as not a big deal. It is a big deal. In fact, it’s a huge deal.

There’s one main reason why men pull back dramatically if they’re intimate with a woman soon after meeting her. In the heat of the moment, his interest will be peaked because he finds you utterly irresistible. But soon after you two have made love reality will hit him and one thought will keep racing through his mind. He’ll wonder if you’re as open with intimacy with all the men you date.

As much as men claim to want to be with someone who is comfortable sexually, they don’t want to picture their woman being that way with every man she’s ever dated. Having sex too early in a relationship sends a message to him that if you did it with him, you likely have done the same thing with your last boyfriend, and the one before that, and the one before that.

He’ll get unappealing mental images in his mind that he just won’t be able to rid himself of.

You don’t want to carry this type of label with a man you are seriously interested in. It impacts his view of you and it will change the way he feels about you. He may pursue a relationship with you but it will be focused on casual sex and little more. Once you get caught in this trap with a man it’s very hard to escape it.

Always think twice before you decide to move any new relationship into the bedroom. If you can establish a strong connection with him based on mutual attraction before you make love, you’ll stand a greater chance of having a future with him. He’ll also love the chase if you don’t share yourself too soon. He wants to woo you, so give him that chance. It will make him want you even more than he would have if you two would have slept together on the first or second date.

When a woman sleeps with a man too soon he may pull back….#deecubedating.

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Just Say This One Magic Word

Just Say This One Magic Word

If you’re reluctant—or unable—to provide the direction you think your lover needs, here’s a simple, effective, one-word remedy. Simply say “yes” when you enjoy what’s happening, and remain silent when you’re less than thrilled. That’s all there is to it—and it works. Over a few months, just saying “yes” is virtually guaranteed to get you more of what you want and less of what you don’t.

Erotic arousal is contagious. The more you show that you’re turned on, the more turned on your lover is likely to become—and provide what clearly arouses you. Sighs, moans, and groans can communicate arousal. But “yes” works better, especially when you say it with feeling: “Oh, God, yes!” or “Ooooo, ye-e-es!” Lovers naturally provide more of whatever elicits that magic word, and less of what’s greeted by silence.

Saying “yes,” largely eliminates the need to say “no,” “don’t,” “not so rough please,” or “stop doing that, you idiot!” It’s easier—and better for relationships—to keep things positive. And once you start saying “yes,” your silence becomes an eloquent—and effortless—way to communicate that what’s happening isn’t ringing your bell.

If you’d like a new move that your lover is nowhere near providing, for example, caresses by hand when you’re receiving oral, “yes” can also help. Say “yes” when your lover does anything close to what you want. By reinforcing successive approximations of your goal behavior, your lover is likely to move closer and closer to what you want.

Once you feel comfortable saying “yes,” chances are you’ll feel better able to make additional comments during sex, for example, loving endearments: “I love you,” or “You’re so sexy,” or “You’re the greatest.” Not that you should feel obligated to say these things during sex. Some couples enjoy it, others don’t. You don’t have to talk during sex. It’s up to you. There’s no right or wrong here.

But if the two of you typically say little or nothing, you might enjoy opening your mouths for more than kissing and oral sex. Everyone loves to hear those three little words, and many (most?) enjoy hearing their lovers whisper other endearments. Or expansions on “yes,” for example: “I love that. Don’t stop.” Or perhaps the phrases one might hear in porn. Or a comment after orgasm: “Thank you,” or “Oooh, that was intense.”

Of course, talking during sex might also cause conflict. One of you might prefer sex in silence while the other enjoys a running commentary. One might prefer clinical terms—“penis” and “vagina”—while the other might prefer earthier terms. Discuss this. A good time for such conversations is shortly after your orgasms as you float in afterglow.

Speaking of afterward, beyond general appreciation for your honey, afterglow is a good time to provide any coaching your “yes” comments didn’t quite communicate. You might say: “You know when you stroked me while sucking me, I really liked that.” Or “I love it when you suckle my nipples, but next time, no teeth, okay?” and your responce is YES!!!!!!.

 

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The Curious Origins of Our Sexual Dirty Words

The Curious Origins of Our Sexual Dirty Words

Fu*k. Cu*t. Tw*t. Co*k. Pus*y. Until fairly recently, authorities on English considered the first three too sexually vulgar to include in standard English dictionaries, while the genital connotations of the other two were equally unmentionable. But in many other languages, equivalent terms that describe the genitals and intercourse are not considered vulgar. How did these English words become so tainted? The answer has nothing to do with sex—and everything to do with political conquest a thousand years ago.

The story of our dirty words begins with the Angles and Saxons, and later the VIkings, Germanic and Scandinavian tribes that invaded the British Isles in successive waves from A.D. 450 to 1050, and drove the indigenous Celts west into Wales and Ireland. Thanks to the Angles, Great Britain became known as Angle-land and eventually England.

The Angles and Saxons spoke Old German, precursors of modern German. They used the forerunners of our dirty words matter-of-factly in everyday speech and from surviving records, it’s clear that the terms were not considered vulgar.

That changed after 1066, when the Norman French conquered Anglo-Saxon England. After a bloodbath, the Normans set themselves up as the new nobility and turned the vanquished descendants of the Angles and Saxons into their serfs. The Normans also made Old French the language of the royal court and the cultured elite. The Normans loved their language with its vowel-laced vocabulary and mellifluous, sing-song cadence. Meanwhile, to French ears, the guttural proto-English spoken by the people they’d conquered sounded harsh and vulgar.

The Normans scorned Germanic proto – English for 300 years. Norman-descended English kings did not speak English (actually Middle English), until the 14th century. The Normans also attempted to impose their melodic French on the peasantry in their new land. But few of the Anglo-Saxons learned it. They continued to speak proto-English with its short, hard, consonant-filled words, including those that became our vulgarities. This preference for gutteral speech appalled the Norman elite, who despised the “dirty” peasantry and their “dirty” words.

The French eventually lost the language war. English contains many words derived from French, but it’s more a Germanic language. But on their way to linguistic defeat, the French succeeded in driving sexual Anglo-Saxonisms underground, banishing them from standard dictionaries and everyday speech until the mid-20th century.

In reality, there was nothing inherently unsavory about Anglo-Saxon sexual terms. They simply had the bad luck to be the vocabulary of the conquered. But like a band of hardy guerrilla fighters that the conqueror’s army can never quite crush, Anglo-Saxon-derived genital and sexual terms inspired enduring grass roots loyalty, which is why they’re still with us today.

Here’s what we know about the origins of our sexual “dirty” words:

PUS*Y. This Anglo-Saxon term is intriguing because it has a double derivation from two Old Norse-Old German words: “puss” meaning cat, and “pusa,” meaning pouch. As far back as etymologists can go, “puss” meant cats, and women were poetically equated with them. Even today, Kat and Kitty are common nicknames for Katharine, and a woman who makes malicious remarks is “catty.” So it’s not difficult to imagine how “puss” evolved from a term for soft, furry little pets into a word for the soft, furry place between women’s legs.

At the same time, “pusa” evolved from a term for pouch into one that connoted pouch-like anatomical structures, initially, the vaginas of cows and mares, and after a while, the human vulva-vagina. According to the Oxford English Dictionary (OED), the first printed reference to “pus*y” in a sexual context was a bar-room toast from 1664: “Here’s good health to thee, good company, and good pus*y.”

CO*K. Just as women were compared to cats, men were linked to roosters, or “co*ks.” It’s possible that this term derives from the Old Norse “kok” or the Old German “kukko,” both of which refer to roosters. It’s also possible that it’s derived from the Latin “coco,” a term for a rooster’s call, which evolved into “coccus,” for rooster, then “coq” in French, and the Old English, “cok.” In any event, it didn’t take long for the word to evolve from the feisty bird whose call signals the time to get out of bed to the frisky organ that gets all excited in bed. Given how ancient “co*k” appears to be, it’s odd that, according to the OED, its first appearance in print in a sexual context occurred relatively recently, in a poem from 1618 that asked: “Oh, man, what art thou when thy co*k is up?”

TW*T. A clear example of Viking influence, it comes from the Old Norse “thviet,” meaning a cut or slit. In Old English, it became “thwat,” and finally around 1500, “tw*t.” Its first use in print dates from 1660, when an unnamed poet cursed an acquaintance by saying that all he deserved in life was “an old nun’s tw*t.” A century later, certain doctors were contemptuously dismissed as “tw*t-scowerers.” From then through the mid-20th century, the word was printed only rarely, but modern writers, notably novelist Norman Mailer and feminist Germaine Greer, helped repopularize it. Today it’s more widely used than it has been in 500 years.

CU*T. The OED traces this word to the Old Norse “kunta,” meaning women’s genitals. “Cu*t” is the dirty word with the longest history in print. It first appeared around 1230 (some 300 years before “fu*k” was first published), when a street in what must have been London’s red-light district was called “Grope-cu*te Lane.” Oddly, the term seems to have been accepted for a while by at least some of the medieval elite. A medical text from 1400 declared: “In wymmen pe neck of pe bladder is schort, & is maad fast to the cu*te.” (In women, the neck of the bladder is short, and attached to the cu*t.) But soon after, the word was driven underground.

In recent decades, “fu*k,” has become so widely used in print and in R-rated movies that it has lost some its power to shock. “Cu*t” is less widely used, making it comparatively more taboo and quite possibly today’s dirtiest word.

FU*K. Despite its recent emergence into semi-acceptability in the mass media in R-rated movies and on cable TV, “fu*k” is the grand-daddy of dirty words. Its actual origins have been obscured by a persistent tale that’s clearly incorrect.

The erroneous explanation traces it to the Pilgrims. As the story goes, early Massachusetts settlers who fornicated out of wedlock were punished by confinement in special stocks bearing the legend: For Use of Carnal Knowledge. The first letters of these words form the acronym “fu*k.”

A nifty story, but it doesn’t explain how, according to the OED, the word first appeared in print in 1503, more than a century before the Pilgrims landed, in a poem by Dunbar, who referred to copulation as “fukkit.” Then in 1535, some 85 years before the Pilgrims, another writer, Lyndesay, had this to say about top English clergy: “Bishops may fu*k their fill and be unmarried.” The Pilgrims may have given us Nathaniel Hawthorne’s scarlet “A” for adultery, but “fu*k” was well established long before they sailed for the New World.

Etymologists trace “fu*k” to the Old Norse-Old German word “fokken,” meaning to thrust, strike, or penetrate, and by extension, to copulate.

What’s so interesting about our sexual vulgarities is that their “dirtiness” has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with ethnic divisions in England almost a thousand years ago.

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